An all over the place blog…

A lot of my previous blogs have been kind of all over the place. It looks to be a reflection of where I'm at in my life most of the time-all over the place. Some days I feel confident and strong, and other days I feel really sad, vulnerable but still positive and self aware. … Continue reading An all over the place blog…

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My attachment to influencers and its challenges (maintaining sanity) part 2

....... This is the final part of this blog series, and conclusion of my thoughts which will hopefully help me to come to terms with my own relationship with the internet and technology, as well as parasocial relationships with influencers I support and I'm a fan of. I had a very difficult time for the … Continue reading My attachment to influencers and its challenges (maintaining sanity) part 2

My attachment to devices, influencers, TV show characters and scenes they played (parasocial experiences and escapism) part 1

I've always had somewhat of an excessive attachment to my technological devices, not because of how sleek or trendy they looked per se, but the fact that they had screens which when turned on, could lead to unlimited distractions. There would be times when I would leave my room or flat to go out to … Continue reading My attachment to devices, influencers, TV show characters and scenes they played (parasocial experiences and escapism) part 1

If you constantly feel like you have no purpose and you’re a failure..read this

Lately, I have been researching as usual, and found something super compassionate. A paragraph out of this blog on a website called Tiny Buddha, written by Lori Descher, author of Tiny Buddha's Gratitude Journal, puts it into perspective. The title of the blog is When You Feel Purposeless And Fear You Are Wasting Time: There’s … Continue reading If you constantly feel like you have no purpose and you’re a failure..read this

Are you living in “survival/ autopilot mode” ?

I need to get a job before.....happens I need to do these super amazing productive things every single day  I need to be ....to have like minded friends I need to be living in a .....area before I can feel confident  I need to......I need to have....I need to be... My life has to be … Continue reading Are you living in “survival/ autopilot mode” ?

Don’t try to fly if you’re still crawling to your destination

     Which one are you?Are you fast and furious or slow and steady to meet your goals???                         It's not about how quickly you get there. Don't try to jump, take unnecessary risks or push yourself too hard if it's not  you. It doesn't … Continue reading Don’t try to fly if you’re still crawling to your destination

Drag queens are just…so powerful

If you watch drag race, you will probably be another huge fan of  drag queens and know the household names; Adore Delano, Willam, Bianca Del rio, Latrice royale, Alyssa Edwards, Shangela, and Valentina. These people are a combination of fan favourites and the most successful queens to date from that have emerged from the show. … Continue reading Drag queens are just…so powerful

When you were heartbroken and disappointed from childhood (motivational)

You learned  to be OK with simply being OK You most likely learned from a young age, from adults and authorities you entrusted your power to that they could not really direct you or guide you the way you needed You most likely learned  quickly that you had to pick your friends wisely, and your … Continue reading When you were heartbroken and disappointed from childhood (motivational)